Speaking with an intuitive person for a psychic reading might be best when you need expert advice about relationships, your lifepath, or divining the future. Find out why getting advice from a psychic is helpful and what kind of tools they use. Then find out what to ask your psychic.
When you’re feeling lost in life and you don’t know where to turn to for advice, there is one place you can always look- to psychic people. People with intuitive abilities often open themselves to helping others who need advice on love, life, and career. Day to day questions about making decisions about what to do can be brought up to psychics, who can use their divination tools to help unlock what the best choice would be. Why should you consult psychics for advice, and what kinds of divination could they use to help? What are some of the kinds of questions you can ask them and can psychics give predictions about your love future? Read on to find out.
Why ask a Psychic for Advice?
“Ask for help not because you are weak but because you want to remain strong.” – Les Brown
In today’s world, there is no place where you can’t find people’s opinions about your life. Even if people don’t know your particular situation, there seems to be some sort of publication out that discusses whatever you are going through, and every last online article, social media discussion, or self- help book seems to have a different opinion about what the best decision you can make is. None of these people can know who you are, or completely understand your situation, simply because they have never met you, and quite often, they are speaking from their own perspectives. The trouble with all of this is, while countless individuals may have gone through similar circumstances, none of them are you, so they don’t entirely understand how this affects you in particular.
The best intuitive readers, most especially the ones you have worked with multiple times, however, know you because they are experts at reading and feeling someone’s energy. Granting them psychic access to what is inside your heart, mind, and what the future holds will allow them to give deep insight about things you had not realized, and help them reveal things that are hidden. While a great psychic may be able to know you well, the fact is, nobody truly knows you better than you know yourself, and an online fortune teller can point out things your unconscious mind has been waiting for you to consciously realize.
A professional psychic won’t be biased or have any desire to sway your decisions one way or another but will help walk you through what options are best for you. They will be able to divine what will happen based on each of the options you can choose from, and they can also reassure you that everything will be okay because they can see the future. An online fortune teller chat can tell you just as much as an in person or telephone psychic session, and you can speak with as many different psychics as you want to for guidance.
What is an Intuitive?
“Intuition is seeing with the soul.” – Dean Koontz
All this talk about intuitives may have you asking what an intuitive is anyhow. It’s basically somebody who has very powerful intuition and intuition is the ability to know things by instinct and no need or conscious thought to know is necessary. It is believed that all of us have some spiritual gifts like naturally being able to speak with the dead, or being able to heal people, and intuitive abilities are just one of the kinds of spiritual gifts. How this presents itself is that you may be good at feeling vibes from someone you have never met before, and if you get a bad feeling, you will know to stay away from them.
Some people want to write intuition off as coincidences of lucky guesses, but intuition is really neither of those things. It is a powerful psychic ability to know things without evidence, and it’s got nothing to do with being observant. Being observant means you are able to look at evidence and clues and draw an educated and informed conclusion from these things. Intuition is completely psychic. Some intuitives can look at someone who is not showing physical signs and tell they are pregnant, and they can tell if the baby will be a boy or a girl. Some intuitives can tell that you are not meant to marry the person you plan to, and others can tell a marriage will end in divorce.
Professional psychics can use their intuition to tell them what to tell you is the best course of action to take when you are confused as to what decision is best, but intuition is not just for the professionals. Intuition sometimes runs in families with parents passing the gift on to their kids, and sometimes entire families are intuitively linked to one another. Does it sound like you might be an intuitive individual as well? To find out about clairvoyant abilities, read here: What is Clairvoyant Psychic Reading?
Kinds of Divination
Divination- “The practice of attempting to foretell future events or discover hidden knowledge by occult or supernatural means.”- Dictionary.com
There are so many different kinds of ways people can tell the future or see hidden truths. That’s what divination is. Some people use tarot or oracle cards, and others go into trances or altered states of consciousness and can do divination with no tools at all. Another well-known divination tool is the pendulum. Keep in mind that no magic lies in the divination tools. They are only inanimate objects, and the magic lies within the psychic intuitive, who only uses the tools to channel the messages given to them to help those who are asking questions.
Psychic Cards
Tarot Cards are hundreds of years old and are a lot of people’s divination tool of choice. There are not only tarot cards, but also many different oracle card decks that psychic readers use to answer questions. Some people ask for a card reading for a basic overview on what is going on in their life and what the near future holds, and others have a specific question to ask. Each card reader will have their own particular style of reading and will have their own cards that speak to them. To read what some of the cards may be telling you in a love reading, see here: Minor Arcana Cards for Love
Pendulum Fortune Telling
The pendulum in general is something that has some weight to it that is suspended from a string or bar of some sort so that it may swing freely. While almost everybody loves to handle the pretty pendulums at the magic and metaphysical supply shops, not everybody can use them for divination. Some people will use them for yes/no questions only, and pay attention to the way they swing, with swinging back and forth meaning yes or no, and from front to back meaning the other. Others will hold pendulums over maps of neighborhoods to locate lost pets and still others will hold pendulums over pregnant mother’s wombs and believe the way the pendulum swings can tell them things about the child who will be born. A good intuitive pendulum reader will know what to tell you based on their pendulum and which way it moves when it is asked a question.
Intuitive Counseling
Some psychics don’t ever use any tools at all. Well, inner intuition is the tool they use, that is. Some people quiet their minds and allow messages to come on their own, and then share what they are being told. They don’t use pendulums, cards, or anything else but their own words. Many intuitives can do this, but plenty of clients like the images on cards to help explain what is being told to them. Others feel more confident if they can at least see which way a pendulum is swinging to give an answer. Once you find a psychic who you trust, if they don’t use tools to illustrate the messages they are being given, that is okay. The messages are still the same and they can explain it all to you.
Questions to Ask a Fortune Teller
“I went to a shrink once but I caught him going to a fortune teller, so I quit.”- James caan
Truthfully, you can ask your psychic most any question except for things like the date and time of your death or for exact winning lottery numbers! You certainly can ask those things, but giving those answers really aren’t what psychic guides do. They help guide us in life with questions about career, spirituality, what we are doing with our lives in general, and even about love. There are a lot of things you may want to ask your psychic guide, and you can discuss any question you have with them. A lot of people want to know about things going wrong in relationships, their own psychic gifts as they develop, and even about being the masters of our own destinies. What can a Tarot reading tell you in bad times? Tarot Readings for Bad Times
Is he Afraid of His Feelings for Me?
One common question people have is if somebody who is not committing to a relationship is scared of their own feelings. “Is he avoiding his feelings for me” or even “ Is he fighting his feelings for me” are two ways to look at the issue. If somebody is doing something like that, you and your psychic can take a look at what is going on and why your lover to be would do that. Are they avoiding cheating on a significant other, so they refuse to see you? Respecting when they say no would be the best course of action. Are they emotionally struggling due to past heartbreak? If so, breaking your heart is not going to heal theirs, and unless they are ready to work on their healing, you may be better off moving on and wishing them well.
A quote attributed to the actor Liam Neeson is, “Everyone says love hurts, but that’s not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality, love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.” It’s been written that he said this after the death of a loved one, and these words are very true. If somebody is hurting from pain from the past, and they start to fall for you, falling for you is not what they are afraid of. They are afraid of having another heartbreak. Love itself does not hurt and if you are involved with someone who refuses to commit , you might want to consider letting them go and your psychic advisor can explore that option with you. Read about love here: What is the Spiritual Meaning of Love?
What Do I Do if I Get a Bad Feeling About Someone?
If you are getting the creeps about somebody and you don’t know why, that’s your intuition kicking in, warning you about them. Some people will immediately feel guilty because they believe we should give everybody a fair chance, but when your gut tells you to stay away, basically, whoever your spirit self is warning you about has had their chance, and your psychic self said “No!” A psychic advisor can have a discussion with you about how your intuition presents itself, and encourage you to continue developing your abilities. Some psychics either teach psychic development, can refer you to who does, or can recommend books and articles to read about that. Cultivating your psychic abilities can be done in the safety of a loving psychic community, and your psychic may be able to welcome you into theirs.
Did he Ever Love Me?
“Did he ever really love me” is another question a lot of people ask. A question your psychic may ask you in response is “Why does it matter?” most especially if the relationship was toxic. When we are heartbroken that things did not work out sometimes, we want to know if anything was left and if we made a mistake breaking things off. You can rest assured that love is forever, and you will always love somebody even if the relationship is over for good, but love aside, maybe the relationship was not meant to last forever. Did he love you if you always said, “He is hurting me emotionally”? Did she love you if she left you because you got sick? Did they love you when they cheated multiple times, and you took them back every time they asked you to? It shouldn’t matter.
What matters is that bad times are over, and you have moved on with your life. If you are looking back to a bad relationship, feeling a need to be told an ex who hurt you did indeed love you, your psychic can help guide you to stop thinking about that and think about what it is going to take to leave the relationship behind you. There is only one way to move, and that is forward. As you process the grief of the fact things did not work out, know that the best is yet to come, and you will love again. Your psychic can help you to see reasons why a bad relationship is not worth trying to start again and help to get you focused on your bright future. Read about breakups with the Signs here: Breakups with Each of the Signs
I’m Feeling Incomplete
Most people come to a point in their lives when they feel like either something or someone is missing, and they feel like they are not complete because of it. Your psychic can help point out all of the good things you have in your life and ask you what it is that you feel like you need. Some people feel so depleted from careers they find unfulfilling, but they don’t know how to find a new career. An intuitive guide can help you to think of things you would rather be doing and even help suggest where to look for new jobs or where to go to get new skills to qualify.
Other people feel lonesome and that they are not well off on their own. Some assume it is because they are not in a romantic relationship that they feel alone, but there are so many different kinds of love you can enjoy. The love of friends and family as well as peers and then the magic of the love of pets fills our lives and hearts with good times and love. If you have all this and would like a romantic partner to share life with, your psychic can help offer ways to get out and meet people, and maybe they can even provide some attraction magic workings to help you be your best and draw a partner worthy of sharing love with you.
Do We Create Our Own Reality?
This is perhaps one of the biggest questions people ask, and the answer is that yes, we do create our own reality, but not in the way we would hope. There are a lot of people who charge money for seminars, lectures, and books that will tell you that all you have to do is wish for things to be exactly as you want them and the universe will dutifully provide it all to you. Others will tell you that a deity will answer all prayers if we do all the pious things in honor of that goddess or god. Neither of these things are how we create our own reality, however.
The way we create our own reality is one decision at a time every single day. This does not mean that if we do all the “right things” that we can have every single thing exactly as we please. What it means is that we control our reactions to things even if we can control nothing else, and there are things that happen as a result of those things. For example, if you save money for five years to buy a home, but once you have that amount saved up, the market changes and house prices go up, you have a decision to make. You can either get a less expensive home, or continue saving money since prices rose. You can’t control prices, but you can control the decisions you make in response to them.
A very serious thing to consider when it comes to being in charge of our own lives is how our decisions affect other people. Some people believe that if they have feelings for someone, that person is wrong and must be convinced otherwise if they don’t feel the same way. While feeling rejected hurts, there are two different ways to react to this. One, you can think of the other person’s feelings, and respect their decision, or you can try and make them be yours anyhow. Chances are, if you continue unwanted advances, this person will like you less and less. In this way, we don’t get to decide things for other people when we are deciding things for ourselves.
Your psychic advisor can help you to set healthy goals, and also help you emotionally through times when things don’t work out as you had hoped. Most especially when you worked very hard for something, if things go wrong, your intuitive guide can help you to either keep trying to achieve your goals, or set them aside and focus your energy on other things. Not everything we want is ours to have, and your advisor can help you to see if you need to keep trying or try something else.
Should I Stay Single?
While it may be wonderful to be in love, when things go badly, taking time off to be single can be just as wonderful. Not everybody wants to always have somebody to date or be in a long term relationship with and there are many different reasons for this. Some people love their independence and don’t want to date just for the sake of dating. They prefer to only be involved with people who they have feelings for, and want to stay single until that time comes. Other people want to be single for a time after being in a relationship, enjoying time to themselves and with friends and family instead of searching for a new mate.
Perhaps the biggest reason some people are single is because they had an especially upsetting breakup or an especially bad relationship and they are relieved it’s over. Taking time away from being romantically involved with people after times like this can be very healing for people, and some people who are parents who got out of an abusive marriage want to spend time getting healing for their children and themselves. Psychics can certainly help in these times, but don’t forget that psychological counselors are part of working through the grief and healing process too. Staying single when it is best for you is something your intuitive advisor will support and help with.
Can I Get a Future Love Prediction?
Many come to psychics to see what the future holds for love relationships. “Will I ever get married?” or “Will I settle down and start a family” are just two questions people ask. Other questions have to do with what the future holds for an existing relationship. Whether you have just started spending time with a new love, or a relationship has some struggles, sitting down with your psychic can reveal what is going on in the relationship and the way things are headed.
As has been written earlier, romance isn’t the only type of love relationship we have. Our friends, family, pets, and peers are also a big part of our lives, and how a romantic partner fits into your life with all these wonderful people is just as important as how things are when it is just the two of you. Some romances result in a Mr. or Mrs. Right, and others are Mr. or Mrs. Right Now. It’s okay to have shorter relationships while you are waiting for the right person who will have a long term relationship with you. Your psychic can see how things are going with who you are seeing and can tell if someone else is coming into your life in the future.
A Last Word
“A problem defined, is a problem half solved.” – Albert Einstein
When visiting a psychic for advice or to find out what the future holds, don’t make the mistake of believing that a reading can fix everything. A lot of people will leave a reading feeling so much better than they did before they started, but problems still exist, and it is up to us to solve our own problems ourselves. Even though a psychic guide can’t fix our problems, it is still good to know there are people who we can go to for advice to help us come up with the right solutions to whatever is going on. Whether you are in a messed up relationship, or you don’t know what to do when you are feeling strong energy from someone, an intuitive guide can help you understand what is going on and help you figure out how to move forward.
We are never alone in life even if it feels like it sometimes. There are friends and family members as well and romantic partners who we share love with, and we are fortunate enough to have teachers and guides who come to us in many forms. When seeking a psychic advisor, make sure to read reviews for individual psychics, and give yourself time to try out different advisors until you find psychics who you feel comfortable consulting time and again. May your journey through life be beautiful, and may your guides walk with you in good times and bad. So Be It.
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About the Author: Lady Saoirse has studied magic and lore for most of her life but started walking her own Magical Path after being spiritually reborn in the desert. Today she is a High Priestess for The Temple of the Goddess, she is a psychic advisor and spiritual counselor, she shares her gifts as a Psychic and Content Writer for SpiritualBlossom, Mysticsense, and she writes for PaganPages.Org emag and Green Egg Magazine.
